Wednesday, March 20, 2024

March 2024, Week 3

 *Today at church we had a speaker talk about a conference talk about parenting.  He said if he paused for a minute, we'd hear a murmur of children in the congregation--and he did, and we did.  He reminded us that there's a reason we don't keep our kids in a separate room during our worship services--we're meant to grow together as families.  (I apologize if it seems I keep coming back to this topic, but it must be on my mind a lot.  Our ward has many young families, and mine is getting older, and I'm adjusting.)  Our intermediate hymn was "True to the Faith."  We have a new music conductor, and she lead this song with great enthusiasm, which is always nice.  My mind paused on the words, "True to the faith which our parents have cherished."  I saw the multi-generational chain that I am a part of, and I'm grateful that I'll be able to report back to my ancestors that I picked up their faith in Jesus Christ and in His gospel and taught it to my children, too, and they are willingly making great efforts to build their own faith.  "Soul, heart, and hand--faithful and true we will ever stand!"

It was a delight!

March 2024, Week 2

 *Today at church I wore an older dress that I got when I was nursing my babies.  It has buttons, so it was more functional than others of my dresses.  It had been out of rotation for a few years, but I saw it this morning and thought I'd try it again, and it brought ALL the nostalgic feelings--and all the reminders of the process of bringing babies and toddlers to church.  There was even a sweet baby behind us who was determined to grab my hair for a bit, despite his mom's distractions.  Those days were so hard (which was the motivation for starting this blog), but I'm on the other end of it now, and I remember a lot of sweetness mixed in with the trials.  I do miss my bitty kids, but I wouldn't want to go back to do it again.  I like who they are (and who I am) now too much.

It was a delight!

Friday, March 8, 2024

March 2024, Week 1

 *Today we had Stake Conference for church.  We had a visiting General Authority, Elder Isaac K. Morrison of the Seventy, and he has such an enjoyable, uplifting personality.  He's from Ghana, and treats his calling as if he's living in a grand dream, being able to travel to different stakes and associate with the Brethren in Salt Lake City.  In the evening adult session last night, he shared that wherever he travels (airplanes, Ubers, etc.), he asks people about their families.  Then he tells them that they would be a good member of our church.  He asks if they are a member, and when they say no, he says, "Why not?!"  I am not so bold yet, but hope to be!

He also taught about the Covenant Path, and how we use it to turn our lives to God.  He shared that he had a friend who left the church, so he went to see why.  His friend still believed in the gospel, and hadn't been offended, but he felt that since he had "done everything" on the path, he was through!  Elder Morrison said that his friend hadn't actually gotten anywhere on the path, if that's how he thought about it.  He challenged us to find our next step and take it.

His third point that evening involved his favorite animals: elephants.  He said that when a baby is born, the rest of the adult females surround the mother and baby and trumpet with joy.  They also make a barrier to protect them from predators.  He encouraged us to be like that as a church, to protect our members from predators and to be joyful they are there.

*I had been asked to accompany a musical number for the evening session.  For some reason, despite the hours of practice I put in, I couldn't play it very well, and was feeling very, very nervous, which is not good for steady hands.  I prayed a lot, and asked Ben and my ministering sisters to pray for me, and I finally felt confident that the Lord would be with me.  My hands were steady, and I played well enough.  I know most people immediately forget how a song is played.  It doesn't matter-- I still want to do well and not detract from the Spirit.  I always have to put my trust in God to guide my shaky, unsure hands.  It is definitely humbling.

*I haven't even shared about today yet!  Pres. Monroe gave a great talk, as always.  It was about The Good Samaritan,  and how in our day, we need to think that we can't afford to NOT stop to help, even if it delays us from our own journey for a bit.  Tessa and I sang in the choir after his talk a song called "The Tree of Life," and the chorister talked to us about this before the session, too-- about how we may need to slow down our progression in order to help others along the way.  I have been thinking about that since then.

*President Morrison again spoke, and he invited several children up to the stand with him.  He said they're the rising generation, our future leaders.  He read from 3 Nephi 17, and reminded us that Jesus wept twice when blessing the children.  Angels surrounded the children then, and he said that we may be the angels surrounding the children now.  He invited us to fall at the feet of Jesus and give a prayer of gratitude.  It will bring so much joy!

He concluded with a story about when he was in the Church Office Building cafeteria, and President Nelson came to eat at his table.  They shared a nice lunch, and after, President Morrison said that his children would ask what message the Prophet gave to him.  President Nelson said, "Tell them I said  'Keep the commandments.'"  President Morrison said that this inspired him to learn more about what a commandment is and how to keep them. He recommended that we read Mosiah 1 and 2 to learn, as well.  Ben and I happened to be reading those chapters in our companion study and were blessed by the words.  He reminded us to "stay for the full feast."

The last thing that President Morrison did was to change the closing hymn.  He asked that we sing "Love One Another" two times.  The first time we could look at the book, but the second time he said we should look around to those we're with and tell them with our eyes while we sing that we love them.  It was easy for me to do that to my children (though they seemed to think it was a bit embarrassing! ☺)  (Also, Ben was out of town, or I would have been looking at him, too!)  We were sitting on the front side row, so I had to turn my body to look at my neighboring seat mate, who happened to be Jeanie Stultz from my ward.  (She had kindly called us over to sit on her row when we arrived.)  I've known her for almost 15 years now, and got to know her better when I served in Relief Society.  She and I looked at each other, and she gave me a great big hug.  It was really quite beautiful.

*It was a delight!

February 2024, Week 4

 *Today in church we got to hear testimonies from several youth who participated in mini missions the day before.  This is an awesome activity that has been a tradition for a few years now.  (They have a couple activities to prepare, and then they go to a host home to share a meal and a gospel message.  We had some young men over and treated them to a South African meal.  Caytie went to "Mexico," Tessa went to "Italy," and Benson went to "Washington, DC.")  It's uplifting to see their excitement to do something hard, try something new, and look forward to full-time experiences.  Benson had even backed out of sleeping on a submarine with his scout troop when he learned it conflicted with the mini mission.

We sang "I'll Go Where You Want Me to Go" as the intermediate hymn.  I cannot sing that without thinking of my friend Joe Alexander from the Lorraine Frail Care Center in South Africa.  Have I shared his story here before?  I think I have.  He was an incredible ambassador for Jesus, and loved to have me play this song to sing along with when we would visit the center for our service hours.  He personified this song.  I hope I do, too.

*It was a delight!

February 2024, Week 3

 *Today in church I got to teach my Primary class about Lehi teaching his son Joseph about the other great Josephs he's connected to.  I was sharing examples of things Joseph Smith did to bless our lives now, and shared a picture of his First Vision. One of my sweet five-year olds said, "There are two of them?" while pointing to Heavenly Father and Jesus.  "I thought they were the same person!"  I said that yes, they are two separate beings, and that is something important that Joseph Smith learned and taught us.  She looked incredulous and said, "I'm five years old and didn't even know that yet!" My coteacher and I assured her that it's okay that she doesn't know everything yet, and that many people wait many, many years (even lifetimes) before they learn that basic gospel truth.  I left that day with a deeper appreciation for my time in Primary (as a five-year old and now), and for Joseph Smith and his willingness to ponder and ask and share, and for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ who answered.

*It was a delight!

February 2024, Week 2

 *Today at church Benson (11) gave his first talk in Sacrament Meeting.  He wasn't thrilled to do it (as us the case with most 11-year olds), and he was the first of his age group to do it, but he was willing, which means a lot.  He didn't want to do much of (any of) the writing of the talk, so I helped a lot there.  He spoke about preparing to be baptized, and for doing baptisms for the dead.  I'm excited to go with him for his first trip to the temple.  He spoke clearly and, truly, it is brave for a young person to address such a large congregation.

After church several people complimented him on his talk.  He accepted their  comments gratefully, and it made me think of when I have my children help with an element of a meal.  They are so excited to say, "I made this!" while I'm in the background thinking about all that I had to do to make it happen. But then they are more willing to help in the future, with less of my support.

How many things have I been guided through, with much more help from the Lord in the background than I see or understand?  It's probably (definitely) much more than I acknowledge.  The song "I Need Thee Every Hour" is really how I live, though I don't always give Him the credit where it's due.  It's something to ponder.

*It was a delight!

Friday, February 9, 2024

February 2024, Week 1

*Today at church, a brother shared his testimony about principles of basketball. ☺ He said there is a concept called "playing off the ball," which means that what you're doing when you don't have the ball can be as important as what you're doing when you do have it, and of being aware of the game and what you're doing and how to help when you don't have the direct pressure to perform.  He related it to his life, in that sometimes when we're in seasons with less stress or trials, we sometimes forget to put in as much work to stay spiritually strong as when we are in the middle of the trials.  We need to keep "playing off the ball" to be ready for when the ball is in our hands.  I thought that was clever, and it set the theme for the day, which was basically: trials are hard and help us grow, but keep up the effort when things are going well, and pray and Jesus will help you.  Another way a sister presented it was with groceries.  (The man related basketball and the woman related groceries--interesting...)  She said that each day we're filling up our grocery cart.  We can fill it up with good, healthy things (reading scriptures, serving, etc.), or with junk.  We take it home and fill up our cupboards.  (This would be our "playing off the ball" season.)  Then, when we are hungry (stress, trials, etc.), we only have what is available to us in our cupboards.  Will we have good, nourishing food, or junk food to pull us through?  Again--a clever thought, and worth thinking more about.

It was a delight!